My Dating Life

     Ok so I'm going to talk about my dating life in this entry because a lot of you keep asking questions about it and asking that one question most of us get  "Why are you still single?" and it just annoys the fuck out of me. Let me start off with that since i was 18 i have been in 3 major, serious, monogamous,   ( i don't do that open relationship shit because its not for me) long term relationships. The first one ended because he didn't want to invest the time into the relationship and make me feel important or that i was his number one. The second one cheated on me, loved finding out about that one. As if i already didn't have enough trust issues!!! The third one just sorta fell apart because of one thing or another, we are still extremely close friends & still hang out today.
     
      Now here are the reasons WHY i am still single:
1. I am already EXTREMELY picky about my friends and who i choose to socialize with so when it comes to a partner my standards are really high and i know its a bad thing but unfortunately i am stuck in my ways.

2. If the person meets my standards they usually aren't interested in me. Ironic right?

3. They do not live here

4. They have a boyfriend

5. Look different in person than in their pictures. That is why i don't use photoshop in ANY of my photos, i don't need to lie about anything, besides i have been told my pictures do not do me justice. So if you think i look good in my photos imagine me in person. so fetch :p

6. They are shorter than me ._.
       

       So onto the Transgression i was talking about yesterday. Let me start off with saying that my gut is usually 99.9 % accurate, especially when it comes to people. Im also extremely good at being able to tell when someone is lying to me thanks to a little something called micro-expressions, if you don't know what they are look them up. My intuition is very good, plus my mind analyzes everything, so it can piece stuff together make a plausible theory and usually turns out to be true. ANYWAY moving on.

    I started talking to this guy and everything was going good. He met all my physical standards and check list. Our personalities blended pretty well. We really enjoyed talking to each other. I thought to myself, this is too easy, this never happens. Unfortunately so much bad has happened to me that my mind just assumes the worst off the bat. So i started going through his Facebook timeline, his photos, his friends, his instagram. I gathered my evidence and made my theory. I wasn't really surprised that something was up because like i said my gut is usually right, and i was. He has a boyfriend. I will never understand cheaters it is something i do not condone. Needless to say i deleted his number……

-Chad Fitch

Stuck in Denver…..

         Hey everyone!!!! Hope y'all are well, sorry for not posting a blog up sooner, i just always get so caught up in my day to day activity. Hopefully y'all had a great thanksgiving, i unfortunately had to work yay for me! NOT. I'll be honest, it was extremely hard for me to not cook this year. Being the "Homemaker" that i am, it brings me great joy to cook for other people and to host a little shin dig. Fortunately work was actually fun and went by extremely fast, and black friday was my last day in Retail after  6 1/2 years. Thank You Jesus. Now i am in hospitality working at one of the hotels :) I really love it and its like ah-mazing.


         Right now i am bored as fuck in Denver, CO. You know i grew up in upstate NY and i experienced cold and harsh winters but i swear to god i have never felt cold like this before. Some of the nights have been like -7 & thats not cute. Remind me to NEVER EVER go anywhere cold again for vacation, especially during winter. I was at first pretty excited to come and go snowboarding, and snowmobiling and maybe go hiking and find a hot spring……… NONE of these things happened or will happened, i guess life just does that to you. I'm a little disappointed but it is what it is. Good news is that i fly home tomorrow and will be back in my city and not dealing with this cold.

Well i think thats it, talk to you later guys
xoxo
Chad Fitch